1. Allissa
    February 13, 2019 @ 3:30 pm

    I know so many couples facing the issue of loss of intimacy and they describe their relationship as “living with a roommate”. One suggestion that I’ve heard is to do a 30 day challenge (make love or have a quickie every single day for 30 days). I have to admit, this sounds more like a sprint than a marathon solution, but then again, I haven’t tried it!


    • Patricia Morgan
      February 13, 2019 @ 9:00 pm

      Hmmm, thank you for the idea of the 30 day challenge. The challenge with that idea, is that if the couple is not acting with cherishing behaviours the sex will feel forced.

      Re your other comment: Yes, often men wear out initiating. Then the “living with a roommate” habit kicks in. Years ago I went to a therapist saying I felt bored with our marriage. I blamed my frustration totally on my hubby. My brilliant therapist looked at me and asked, “Patricia, how are you boring your relationship?’ That kicked me into action. If you take a look at this Merry Lovemaking link you will see some of the acts I initiated to indicate I wanted to inject some fun, excitement and yes, merry lovemaking into our marriage. Women can initiate! And if they truly love their man, it is a good thing to do!


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